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 Posted: Sun Nov 2nd, 2008 08:17 am 1st Post
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Nightrider1
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   Guys, Wait till you read this one. When AZGL1500 (John) heard that I was going to gave to have my Spinal Block canceled, he sent me a PM, and I denied the help, Because he offered money, and I am not one to accept money. He PMed me again, and said he was Sincere about this help, and i denied him again, He sent me another PM, and I told him I didn't mind asking for Prayer and help for my tire, (and he also offered Moneytary help on that, But as usual, I denied it, and thanked him. I know I was in for a PM Battle, so after many PM's and turndowns, I told AZ that I would go along with it if it was a loan, Just $100.00 to cover the Hospital deductible.

   Well, he agreed. I did not know he already had sent the money via Paypal, and I told him I did not know how long it would be before I could get him paid back, but now I will be able to keep my appointment at the Hospital on the 6th of November, and get the spinal Block I desperately need. God Bless you AZ!

   NOW I AM NOT ASKING FOR MONEY in this, I am just telling a situation. After my uncle died, My mom's younger brother, and his daughter come down and stayed for 2 weeks, and was planning to stay Longer, but my Mother made them mad, and they both left, and that meant i would have to fill a lot of shoes. With my difficulty, I know I am in for a rough time, and I ask again for PRAYER for God to send someone to live in and help take care of her.

   My Uncle wanted my mom to die with him, and he even asked her if she would, and got mad when she said she couldn't do it becqause if she commitited sucide, she would go to hell, and mu uncle had reprnted, and prayed much on his death bed, and my little sister (An LPN) come and stayed for the Glory, and I had to go to Munford to try to sell a camper that my Uncle lived in on my land, and I went down Hwy 77 to Munford, and back up 21 through Tallegeda and Anniston planning to go to Centre and get my mom some Vanala Nutriment Supplement, because she likes Vanilla and Chocolate, but when I got to the intersection of 21 and 431, I unexpectedly turned left to come home. My sister knew I had been out riding, and usually come home a little after dark, but I got home at 1:30pm on the 15th of October.

  When I walked in, I was shocked to find my mom, barely breathing because my sister, the LPM had gave her an Overdose of her Meds along with one of hers. I then called her home Health Nurse, and Mom told the nurse what she had given her, and to call the ambulance.

   When the medics got here first, my mom told them what she had taken of her meds, and my sister giving her more, and my sister was in bed when I got there around 1:30. I immediately got my mom up, asked her the day she said Saturday but it was wednesday, and when I asked her what year it was, she replied it is 1908.

   Well, after I got mom up, my little sister come running out of bed, and asked what I was doing. I asked her What  are you trying to do, Kill her? (She could have it made to look like a heart attack from grieving because my mom and her brother we very, very close, and she loved him more than life itself.) I got her to east a nutriment bar, along with drinking some sprite, but she still did not know where she was at, and could not hold her head up.

  My sister did not like that, and said she had worked as an LPN for 13 years, What do you know about helping someone? I told her well, I worked in the Medical Records at a Nursing facility for 8 years, and was their medical Records Clerk, and before that, I told her I was in charge of installing a new medical records program. I then asked her what drug(S) of hers (My Little sister) had given my mother, and she stormed out the door, cursing, and saying "I just gave her some sleeping meds". I asked how many and she slammed the door and left.

   The medics took my Mom to the hospital, and gave her some charcoal, and something to counteract what my sister had given her, and when I called my little sister at home, she never seemed like she did nit give a dam, because I apparently come home early and caught her. I had also asked where she had been when I sent mom to the ER that saved her life 3 times before that, and she replied I was sick, and I said you still are.

   The doctors at the hospital confirmed the overose my sister had given her, and also if I had not come in when I did, she would have been dead within an hour because her BP and Respiratory was etremely low. My Mom still does not remember much through the next three days, thats how much meds she had been given, and I knew when my uncle and his daugter left, and my sister cone up "to take care of mom" I told her I had been doing it for 4 years now, but I believe she was asked by my dying uncle that he wanted mom to go with him, and my little sister was going to fulfil his dying wish, and my uncle even asked my mom to die with him, and he had my Uncle and my little sister were in his room for  quite a hile before my uncle left, and my sister stayed, and they were all talking really low, and I looked in the room they got quiet and all of them gave me the strangest stare. I honestly believe my sister was really planning to overdose her, because she was in her room apparently faking to be asleep, but when I got mom into the kitchen, she went into a rage. So I told mom that I did not want her up here without me being here, and to not let her give mom any more of her meds. My mom disagreed, saying my little sister Loves me (my mom) , but my little sister was up so fast when she was supposed to be sick and asleep in bed, I felt soomething was terribly wrong here, and I told my mom several days later that I usually follow my gut instint, because the first one is usually correct, and it was. Please pray for my little sister also if you would. She has a bad problem, and needs Phych Help, but she denies it.

Thanks AZ! I will be able to get this spinal block done now, (And I knew you were not going to let me rest until I agreed). Please pray for my Family. I am having to fill shoes that I cannot do very well right now,and when I am going to get my spinal block, I am going to ask two of our neighbors to come stay with mom until I get back. Please excuse my typos. (I hope I got my typos fixed. I also addded some of what my dying uncle asked my mom)

Sincerely,

David Aka Nightrider1

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THANK YOU AZ!!!!!!! YOU HAVEE A HEART OF GOLD SIR, AND I HOPE I GOT EVERYTHING DOWN CORRECTLY. Its 3:22 am now, and I have to try to get a little rest.

 

 

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It is great to hear of people you know stepping up to help one another. I know my prayers will include all of you and David I know by the way you talk of your mom and your love for her that you will be able to fill the shoes. I wish you the best of luck with the spinal block and wish you continued success in all that you do.





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 Posted: Sun Nov 2nd, 2008 03:29 pm 3rd Post
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Thanks Kevin.

Your Quote on the bottom says it all.

David Aka Nightrider1

Panatellos wrote:
It is great to hear of people you know stepping up to help one another. I know my prayers will include all of you and David I know by the way you talk of your mom and your love for her that you will be able to fill the shoes. I wish you the best of luck with the spinal block and wish you continued success in all that you do.





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That John, (I think), was transformed into a living angel when he got hurt on his wing! Nice job AZ, God Speed on the nerve block, NightRider. I swear, this place ROCKS!!!!!!!! jimsjinx



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I pray every day that the Good Lord will allow his healing mercies to touch all my family and friends that are in need.

And that's where you and all the rest of the forum fit in,,, Family..

Keep the faith and remember all things are possible thru HIM!

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 Posted: Mon Nov 3rd, 2008 12:09 am 6th Post
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Kevin,

    I thank you,and agree that God will send someone to help. I'm gonna try too fix my typos now.

God Bless,

Nightrider1

Panatellos wrote:
It is great to hear of people you know stepping up to help one another. I know my prayers will include all of you and David I know by the way you talk of your mom and your love for her that you will be able to fill the shoes. I wish you the best of luck with the spinal block and wish you continued success in all that you do.





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jimsjinx ,

     My Mother and I have gotten along better now since my uncle died, and too me, that is sad. I was missing checks, tools, etc, and mom was missing towels, washclothes, dishware, silverware, all kinds of stuff. We have found them at my deceased uncles camper. He tried everything do make mom and I argue with each other, and I kept telling her "Mom, I haven't gotten nothing" and we both appologised to each other, now realizing my uncle was jealous (Which is rediciolus) of mom loving him more than me, Thats all we could figure out, sbut we firgave him still, and I am praying everyday, many times, that God will send me a miricle to help me get someone to help me take care of her, because I have difficulty of even taking care of myself, annd I called my Nurse, and asked her If I could take my Immeadiate Release Morpning every 4 hours instrad of 6, and she said it was ok. It helps, but not just enough.

   I have been able to get my mom eating better, staying by her side, making sure she does not cook, akd try to do things beyond her limit,, but I will do it for her, and I do. On her Limit, she learned a valuable lesson today. When we were working side by side, she was working in my deceased uncles Camper, and I was working making room in her shed, using my Powerchair to move al lthe junk from the Camper to the shed, and after about 1-2 hours, I told her we were feeling good, time to quit, or you will over go your limit, and she quit. This evening, she knows what I am talking about, because she said she was in a lot of pain, and lying down usuallly helps her, but it was not now, but I am goinng to let her do what she can, so she will not loose what independebce she has, and I am going th be there to take up her slack, and make her sit down.

   Now, if I get someone to be able to live in, It will be a blessing, like the spinal block that is coming for me. I annxiously await for it and Thursday Morning cannot get here fast enough! I can imagine what the relief will be, thanks to AZ, now HE IS AN ANGEL!

Thanks Brothers!

God Bless,

Nightrider1

(P.S. We do not need to forget what the forum is about though, and that is helping people with their Goldwig Problems)

imsjinx wrote:

That John, (I think), was transformed into a living angel when he got hurt on his wing! Nice job AZ, God Speed on the nerve block, NightRider. I swear, this place ROCKS!!!!!!!! jimsjinx

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Dear lostinflorida,

      I have faith in our lord, but it seems like I cannot find a way to pray for myself, but I can for others, but I do give hin my problems, and I know he cares,but it is bezelbub that contimues the lie in the pain we have in this world, and I wish our Lord would be just as active, but it is not up top me to ask that of him. That sentence really scares me.. I really believe that to be true, and now, many doctors are saying that not only healing the body is imortant, but the miind and spirit, but it is really difficult for me each day physically, and it makes me sick to my stomach sometimes because I cannot ceace the pain, but I will win in the end. Wait and see! They say "No pain No Gain" LOL I should be filthy rich. (At least in Spirit)

Thanks Brother,

Nightrider1

lostinflorida wrote:
I pray every day that the Good Lord will allow his healing mercies to touch all my family and friends that are in need.

And that's where you and all the rest of the forum fit in,,, Family..

Keep the faith and remember all things are possible thru HIM!

Earl.



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